help?? im soo confused about these people!!! (sorry its long, but its entertaining if you like reading chaos)?
how would i find other peoples cell phone-numbers
ok so theres this guy. ill call him bob.i like him. a lot. me, bob, and a few friends were playing bull s***. he said bs to everything i said (including stuff that had nothing to do with the game) i mean i would say hey to someone and he would say bs!! it wasnt annoying or anything, because i definately laughed, but his friend slapped him every time he said it, then whispered something in his ear while looking directly at me every time!!i wasnt right in front of him either. but then when i left i saw a post it in my bag and it had his number on it with a note. " im failing math so my dad took my phone. i cant use it but have my number anyway" and so he has a twin brother. im calling him bill. bill IMs me every day and i guess you could say that we are friends. but lately hes been a little weird talking to me…. and he keeps complimenting me. my friend thinks bill likes me but idk and if he did that would be a HUGE issue 
i have both bill and bobs cell phone numbers but bill cant find his phone so i dont text him. this is all working out fine, im just a little confused. but heres the catch. i told one of my friends that i liked bob but she hadnt deleted her texts and my other friend who CANNOT keep a secret looked through her texts and now she knows. i mean im not mad at the one friend, because she directly told my other friend NOT to look at her texts. i didnt want to tell the one who cant keep a secret, because before with my ex bf, i hadnt told her and i had told my other friend. but she looked through her emails! so she knew. i didnt think much of it until this one girl who i barely ever talk to came up to me and asked me about my bf. it turned out my friend had told half the grade!!!! she had also told her friend that went to my bfs school, and some other people at his school, to see if they knew him. thank god they didnt, because she would have gotten his cell phone number of email or screen name or something and annoyed the heck out of him to the point that he would have to dump me because she was being so annoying! i dumped him as soon as she asked her friends, but i dont regret dumping him. the next time i saw him was at a dance and he was pole dancing and acting like he was 6. my friend acts like she has to know absolutely everything about my life and she had told us before that if we didnt want to be her friend anymore then we could just say so. so i said so, yesterday. today in school in the middle of chinese she burt out in tears and went on and on about how everyone decided to hate her in a week. and i gave her a hug because she obviously needed it, and now she thinks that im her best friend in the world. she can be awesome at times, but she can also be extremely rude and annoying. she also has a huge lying problem. this really nice girl asked her why her eyes were so red, and she said that she rubbed her eyes a lot in her sleep. she had just been crying for 2 hrs straight. my other other friend pulled her aside to tell her that she heard that and to ask why she lied about it. she said that she didnt lie and she would never lie about something like that. she also lied about my ex bf. she said that her friend at his school looked at her texts. this is what she told me yesterday. 2 months ago she told me that she told her friend to see if she knew him. im really confused because
1) i really dont want to be her friend, but she will burst out in tears if i leave her for 5 minutes
2) i have no idea what to do about bob
3) add all this together and try balancing that with school and sports every day!! stress to the max!!
You have to make a decision. I know two easy ways to deal with this. The easiest of the two is to stop talking to people about Bob and Bill. When you want to talk to them, call them on the phone and if you have to text them then delete it right away. This is also the hardest way though, because you cannot talk to anybody you trust if you want to keep things normal. the second way is more like freedom, but it requires more of your time. You can continue to talk to your friends about whatever you feel like, and don’t give the one girl a reason to think that you are hiding anything. Continue to be her friend, take her with you for everything, and tell her about your day, and if she ever asks about bob and bill, just make them sound like they are unimportant. when you get a chance, let bob and bill both know about this girl and how she is. tell your friends not to text anything important about the situation unless they delete it as soon as they read it. II recommend this direction because the first one could get out of hand and you could lose some friends over it.